Saturday, September 17, 2011

Commitment and Communication

Are you a person people can count on? I certainly hope I am. As you read below, yup, I blew it! I forgot a commitment yesterday. Luckily it wasn't a big thing or a paying job. Good thing the person knows me well enough to just call me and say "Amy, where are you?".

But today we had someone that made a commitment last week, not follow through on their commitment. And NO phone call, nothing. Nada! And it was something we were going to pay the person to do. You'd think we'd at least we'd get a phone call saying the least "Hey, something came up and we can't make it". We'd be just fine with that.

This reminds me of the story of the Pig and the Chicken

Once Upon a Time....

A Chicken and a Pig lived on a farm. The farmer was very good to them and they both wanted to do something good for him.

One day the chicken approached the pig and said, "I have a great idea for something we can do for the farmer! Would you like to help?"

The pig, quite intrigued by this, said, "of course! What is it that you propose?"

The chicken knew how much the farmer enjoyed a good healthy breakfast. He also knew how little time the farmer had to make a good breakfast. "I think the farmer would be very happy if we made him breakfast."

The pig thought about this. While not as close to the farmer, he too knew of the farmer's love for a good breakfast. "I'd be happy to help you make breakfast for the farmer! What do you suggest we make?"

The chicken, understanding that he had little else to offer suggested, "I could provide some eggs."

The pig knew the farmer might want more, "That's a fine start. What else should we make?"

The chicken looked around...scratched his head...then said, "ham? The farmer loves ham and eggs!"

The pig, very mindful of what this implied, said, "that's fine, but while you're making a contribution I'm making a real commitment!"


Where do we stand? Just a place where my brain is at the moment.

Friday, September 16, 2011

Here's My Heart...

...whether you want to know or not. If not, just pass on by. I will still love you ;)

I think I've mentioned a blog that I follow by Stephanie Howell. This gal doesn't know it but she helped me get through my son's deployment. Her strength and sharing of her heart, her joys and her fears as her husband was deployed (they have 4 little girls!!) helped me to carry on. Knowing I wasn't alone. Not being able to have a connection with other Mom's and families during Robert's deployment was tough. That's what happens when your son joins a unit in another State. And being contacted by Family Services twice during deployment just doesn't seem to cut it.

Anyway, Stephanie gave us a challenge on her blog here to:



Stephanie was inspired by Ali Edwards (another blog I read). And Ali was inspired by a gal named Jen Lemen (whose blog I may start following). Yes, I can blog stalk with the best of them.

So here you go, here's my heart. Right where it is at this moment.

1. I am soooo worried about our sweet little Lizzie. It's the hardest thing in the world to be a 17 hours drive away from your grandchild when they are sick. Pneumonia!! Still don't know how in the world her illness went straight to that. But grandma's heart and arms hurt. I just want to sit with her and snuggle all day.

Here she wanted to take a picture making silly faces :D


2. I get so frustrated with myself! There are days I can't seem to accomplish squat!!! And others that I just tear up the town. I have to stop beating myself up. And remember to look at the calendar FIRST thing in the morning. Yup!! I forgot an appointment this morning. Nothing critical - Just helping another music booster member straighten up the uniform closet. So I am just feeling like a goober for spacing it.

3. Thankful that David is a good morning person! I have to say (hope I won't jinx things now) that he is the easiest of the 4 kids to get up in the morning. That's not to say given the opportunity he won't sleep until noon - because he has. We've started seminary (Bible study) before school. It starts at 6:30am. I'm even having a hard time getting up. But that's because I don't go to bed at the same time he does. Maybe I should try that sometime ;) I adore his teacher, Laura Newman. She is so understand of David's schedule and his desire to be in spirit band and jazz band and those days that take him away from bible study time. She works with us to help David stay caught up with the rest of the class and gives such a positive attitude to David and the rest of the class. It speaks volumes!!!

4. Positive thinking, being grateful, looking on the bright side, positive speaking, being encouraging. All things I want to do better.

5. Think BEFORE I speak or write a comment.

6. I have a husband who loves and adores me despite my flaws and extra poundage. Getting rid of the fluff isn't as easy as people without insulin resistance think it is. It warms my heart to know he takes the time and WANTS to take me out to dinner or lunch. Or even just working side by side in the chocolate shop - sometimes not even speaking. Just wanting to spend time with me makes my heart happy.


We both are looking a smidge tired here.

7. Speaking of chocolate - sooooo much chocolate to wrap!! We are grateful and blessed our new business (well hobby until it starts making money) is taking off. But boy, we're tired ;D

8. Both girls will be starting college next week. Tabitha will be a Junior. Amber will be a Sophomore. I always worry about them. I also love watching them succeed. They are so different. They both add so much joy (and head shaking) to our lives.

LOTS more on my heart but I won't overwhelm you. Stephanie thinks she'll do this monthly. I think I like that. Our family blog has turned into a journal of our life and even if no one else reads this - I will. And hopefully future generations will read the books I have made from the entries.

Are you up to blogging your heart? Post your link in my comment section. I'd love to see where your heart is - right now.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

How Can this Be?

Tell me when did our little Elizabeth get old enough to go to preschool?!?!?

Can you tell she's just a little excited? She's just too adorable!

And this reminds me of her Auntie Amber when she was this age.



I tell you, these 2 little peanuts are so a like sometimes!

Sunday, September 4, 2011

We are addicted to water!

Summer has FINALLY come to Washington and we are taking advantage of it every chance we get. In fact, Rob and I ran away for a day - ALONE. Yup!! A.L.O.N.E. = no kids!! It was sooooo fun. We have to do this more often. So many places and things to do. We decided to go to Friday Harbor out in the San Juan Islands.

It was the perfect day!!


Here comes the ferry


A good morning to be on the ferry - not very crowded


Even a jelly fish came to see us off


It was a busy boating day out on the ocean


Coming into the harbor


A view I would NEVER get tired of seeing. This is from the park right above the harbor.


Here's a little perspective of the size of the ferry boat vs. a sailboat


On the way home we went the long way home through Chuckanut Drive. But first went through a little town called Edison. I have to say that this place:


Reminded me of this place in Cook's Corner, Trabuco Canyon, CA


The drive home was stunning


We couldn't ask for a better place to live then the Pacific Northwest!

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

End of Summer Cruise

So Rob's work had a cruise for some of the employees and their spouse. We were fortunate to be one of the invited couples. The evening was BEAUTIFUL!!! Some of you know me all to well and are thinking - Amy going on a cruise? YUP!! It wasn't too bad actually. The only time I started to feel motion sick was when we went down in to the area where they were serving dinner. It was just too level with the water for me. So sweet Rob came up with me to the top of the boat to eat.

See what a beautiful day it is to go on a cruise




I thought the clouds were making the most stunning shapes


We live in such a beautiful area!!!


And sunset is starting


I'm going to play with this in photoshop - I love it!!

And literally within seconds the sunset looked like this:

Like the sky and the water were on fire!

Then we saw the US Coast Guard practicing their maneuvers.

Can you see the person?

Starting to be lowered?



Coming back into the harbor


It was such a beautiful evening with great people and great food. Thank you Alpha Technologies for a wonderful night.

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Can never get used to it...

...starting school before Labor Day. Yes, we've lived up here all these years and I have never liked starting the week before Labor Day. It just doesn't seem right. But...I have no say in the matter. So here we go with the gratuitous before school pictures.



After all these years he knows to just expect it.

Then this afternoon we were following up on a lead on a trombone to purchase for David. And guess what? We got it!!

We got this bad boy for 75% of it's retail value. It's only 3 years old. The story is that the seller's parents bought this trombone his senior year in high school and once he graduated he never touched it. And the seller is a current WWU student and tuition is due soon so he was rather motivated and I pretty much gave him his asking price as he lowered it by $100 from his Craigslist price. In our family the kids all pay for 1/2 of their instrument - they need to have a vested interested in it as well. The only one we haven't figured out what to do with their instrument is Amber. Have you seen the price of a bassoon?!?!?!

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Deadliest Catch Time!!

You can imagine our surprise when we found out that some of the deckhands from the show were going to be at the Northwest Washington Fair in Lynden. Yes, within 2 miles from our house!!! Talk about exciting!!!

David and Amber with Travis Arket from the North American


Troy "Chief" Hale from the Cornelia Marie, Tabitha, Amy, David, Travis Lofland from the Time Bandit, Jake Jolibois from the Kodiak and Travis Arket laying across the table. I tell you, these guys are a riot.

The next day Amber wandered over to the booth to see if any one else new showed up. And she got to meet:

Scott Hilstrand from the Time Bandit and Ryan Simpson from the Cornelia Marie

Amber has been working at the fair all week as a "greeter" - which means she was scanning tickets at the entrance.


And Friday, Tabitha was singing the National Anthem's of Canada and the United States.

When we went to get our fair admission tickets (and reserved parking pass - LOVE IT!!) we discovered that someone had put tickets in there for that evenings concert - Credence Clearwater Revisited. Honestly, it's not our era of music but we enjoyed it and did know some of the songs.


Unfortunately, the fair turned bad on Saturday night - there was a shooting. And yes, we were there. It's a small fair so really, anywhere at the fair is close by where this happened. 3 people were shot and 1 person was stabbed. Not a lot of details are being released right now but the suspect was apprehended - he was 15 years old!! And yes, they feel it was gang related. No kidding! The kinds of people that were at the fair on Saturday night were such a different crowd then Friday.

All the police, sheriff, border patrol, fire department and security were amazing in the way they handled the situation. I am sure this will be quite the controversy for a long time in little old Lynden.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

When Friends Visit...

..even for a day and a half you have TONS of fun. We gave Scot a taste of NW Washington fruit.


The first night Rob and I took Scot to our favorite restaurant - Giraffe's in White Rock, BC. Then Saturday we went out to breakfast at Skylarks, walked around Fairhaven and then took the trail to Boulevard Park. And take pictures, of course!



These two have known each other since they were teenagers. And they quote Monty Python skits waaaayyy too much.



Go to the cheese shop...

Most definitely heading back here once the apple farm opens.

Then we went to a high end audiophile shop for the boys to dream. This is what we were doing while they were dreaming...

watching Tron in surround sound on a 100" flat screen in wonderful leather theater chairs. Holy goodness!! If it didn't cost so much to have a room like this I would want one!!!

Then Scot left all too soon back to Seattle for business meetings. It's always good when friends come to visit.

Friday, August 12, 2011

Heroes or Role Models?

Food for thought - Just read this article today and really made me think about how I use the word.

"I want to write about the difference between a hero and a role model. I saw an article a while ago about the Japanese senior citizens who were volunteering to diffuse one of the biggest nuclear meltdowns in history at the Fukushima nuclear plant. There is a 250 member volunteer group, and all the members of the group are over 60 years old. They are led by 72-year-old Yasuteru Yamada who hopes his seniors group, the Skilled Veterans Corps, will help end the crisis at the crippled Fukushima Daiichi nuclear plant. They will likely die doing this.

The group says it is uniquely poised to work at the radiation-contaminated plant, as the cells of an older person’s body divide more slowly than a younger individual.

In other words, they have a better chance of doing the work and maybe not getting cancer or radiation poisoning and dying.

“We have to work instead of them,” says Yamada, referring to the estimated 1,000 workers currently at the nuclear plant. “Elders have less sensitivity to radiation. Therefore, we have to work.”

Yamada is a former engineer for Sumitomo Metal Industries Ltd. and offers decades of experience, he says. A cancer survivor, Yamada says he values his life but wants to make a difference in the years he has left.

The prime minister’s special adviser [some joker] to the nuclear crisis publicly dubbed them, the “suicide corps.”

65-year-old Masaaki Takahashi bristles at the name Hosono gave his team. “I want them to stop calling us the ’suicide corps’ or kamikazes,” he says. “We’re doing nothing special. I simply think I have to do something and I can’t allow just young people to do this.”

Kazuko Sasaki, 69, the co-founder of the group, says she has a number of personal reasons why she wants to work at the plant. “My generation, the old generation, promoted the nuclear plants. If we don’t take responsibility, who will?” “When we were younger, we never thought of death. But death becomes familiar as we get older. We have a feeling that death is waiting for us. This doesn’t mean I want to die. But we become less afraid of death, as we get older.”

These men have volunteered to take the place of younger folks. Now, a little debate seems to go on in a lot of people’s minds between what constitutes a hero and what’s a role model. I was almost going to say “just”, but let’s face it, there’s a big difference. You remember Captain Sullenberger of the Hudson River landing fame — he’s the one who landed the plane. Everyone called him a hero. He’s not a hero. He’d be the first one to tell you the definition of a hero does not include him. So, what is the definition of a hero?

The definition of a hero was initially determined by the Pittsburgh-based Carnegie Hero Fund Commission, established in 1904. The “classic” definition to ‘hero’: someone who voluntarily leaves a point of safety to assume life risk saving or attempt to save the life of another.” This is different from a role model or positive role model. We overdo the word “hero.” I don’t mean to diminish or dismiss the efforts of people who are in no harm’s way and help somebody else. Those are good role models, but they are not heroes. Hero is a very special term.

Let’s get back to Sullenberger. Sullenberger said, “My wife actually looked it up in the dictionary. We decided between ourselves that it describes someone who chooses to put himself at risk to save another.” He continues, “That didn’t quite fit my situation, which was thrust upon me suddenly. Certainly, my crew and I were up to the task. But I’m not sure it quite crosses the threshold of heroism. I think the idea of a hero is important. But sometimes in our culture we overuse the word, and by overusing it we diminish it.” So, here’s what happened:

When the engines stopped on US Airways Flight 1549 in January 2009, Capt. Sullenberger was not in a place of safety. On the contrary, he was in the same peril as the passengers whose lives he saved with his piloting skill. He did not have the opportunity to make a moral choice to take on the risk - it ‘was thrust upon’ him.

So, he did not come from a place of safety. He did not have the opportunity to make a moral choice. He was in the situation and had to use his skills. He’s a good role model of a captain of an airplane who keeps his wits about him and does his job, superbly. And ends up probably saving a lot of lives if some one else had lost it when they were in the cockpit. But how savvy is he? How honest and how ethical, how moral, what kind of incredible character does this man have to clarify for all of us, the truth of what a hero is? Picking up somebody from an accident scene and taking them to the hospital is being a good role model, but not a hero, regardless of whether that person lives or dies. Jumping into the ocean when there are sharks to save somebody else? That’s a hero. Your life has to be at risk, and you make a moral decision; that’s a hero.

Since 1904, the Carnegie Hero Fund has granted more than 9,400 awards - and nearly $33 million - to people who have risked their lives to save others.

The extraordinary exploits include pulling someone from a burning building, standing between someone and an attacking animal, rescuing a drowning swimmer, thwarting an assault on a citizen and other facing-death-to-save-a-life acts. About a fifth of the awards have been granted posthumously.

The commission also talks about how they cringe when a victim is viewed as a hero when they survive. Making the moral decision to put yourself in harm’s way to save another’s life is being a hero. When you are in a situation and behave appropriately, you are a fabulous role model. But “hero” is a very, very special term. That’s why we give it to military, we give it to firemen, we give it to police officers — because they make the decision to take on an occupation that puts their lives at risk to save others."

Just so you know these guys

and this one in particular (the one waving to his Mom who is standing on the top of the stairs, just so I could see him) is MY hero: